I have way more guy friends than I would ever have friends that are girls. They are just way more relaxed and chill to hangout with, there is never any drama and I always have a good time with them. I love my guy friends I can tell them anything and keep it to themselves, they are not as messy as girls and tell the whole world, and they never judge me, they accept me for who I am.I agree that girls tend to be a little more simplistic and easier to be friends with but every girl needs her own girlfriends.I used to say things just like she did,basically that girls are stupid and I hate them. Part of it was because I had so many bad past experiences that I put a label on all females. I started to recognize that 1. I was a girl, so I was probably encouraging some of the drama,and 2. I just had not found my girl friend type. Another problem was I grew up with the same class of 30 kids for 9 years and I was always the only athletic one in the class. I would have rather played basketball then sat and brushed each others hair.Other girls were probably a little jealous and others probably just could not get along but I had to let go of that stereotype over all girls.
Now, I still tend to have more guy friends but I do have my loving and wonderful girl best friends and they are the best things in the entire world. I do not mean to call her out and say Deja is just acting a little immature, but she'll learn. I had to grow up and face the facts that one day I would not hate very female on this earth. And plus, as you get older, you get all these lovey dovey feelings for boys and then they screw you over. Who are going to lean on then? Your girlfriend duh!
Don't forget to comment on Deja's post to let her know you responded...you do that yet? :)
ReplyDeleteBringin' the senior wisdom here, I see...
I am going to to do that for all my reposts right now!
ReplyDeleteWhen you've been there, you have to share the wisdom. :)
Pay it forward, pay it forward...
ReplyDelete